"I studied abroad" is a sentence that few people
can say, but even fewer can understand. I studied abroad. No Rick Steeves check
sheet, Italian phrase book, or Google web search could prepare me for the four
months that lay before me as I waved goodbye to my family on August 17. But
traveling isn’t about getting to the destination; it’s what you take away from
it…
Nice, France
Rule #1: People are not always Nice... keep your pants on.
Though an encounter with some gypsies left some members of my group with lighter pockets, from that day on everyone held their bags a little bit tighter.
Rule #2: Do as the locals do.
A local's suggestion to leave Nice and travel an hour to Cap d'Ail fruited one of the most beautiful days of my trip as we walked down the coast of the French Riviera.
Lugano, Riva San Vitale, and Bellinzona, Switzerland
Rule #3: Stay in your neighborhood.
…sometimes. With cheap airlines in flight and trains within earshot, sometimes it's hard to remember to take a look around. Some of my best memories throughout the semester came from simply sitting by the beautiful Lake Lugano, just footsteps from my classroom. Breathing while relaxed in your proximal habitant will feel a lot different than sprinting through streets of a busy city; try it.
Interlaken, Switzerland
Rule #4: Leap.
Because jump is too weak a word. Leap into whatever interests you, but more importantly, leap into the unknown like you were jumping off a canyon in the Swiss Alps. There's a lot to be said for doing something completely new, and I bet you'll smile even harder than you would've if you played it safe.
Berlin, Germany
Rule #5: Love your tour guides.
Even if they don't love you back. Chances are that the person leading you around a foreign city started out doing that because they became infatuated with it. Make it a point to question your guides as to why they fell in love with the city, like our friend Theo in Berlin!
Prague, Czech Republic
Rule #6: Always pretend like you have less money than you do when bargaining with market vendors.
Your supposedly smaller wallet will not disappoint.
Rule #7: Only trust people painting before your eyes.
Never buy a watercolor without inspecting it in the sunlight and checking for a signature. Alas, perhaps the mistake I made was karma coming back at me from my previous rule.
Salzburg, Austria
Rule #8: Keep old curtains.
An older group of lifetime friends were skipping down the garden path as Julie Andrews did in the Sound of Music. Clad in what? Old curtains as done in the movie. Cherish friendships,both new and old, while always remembering that laughter has no price and best friends can only embarrass you as much as you let them.
Munich, Germany
Rule #7: Prost [often].
Toast to the future regularly; it will help you remember what it is that you're truly wishing for... make it come true!
Pisa, Italy
Rule #8: American parents are easier to spot than you think.
And they understand what you are asking when you ask them to take a picture. More importantly, such travelers wander with an equal but different enthusiasm than students you might meet who are also studying abroad. Take the time to listen to what these people have to say.
Cinque Terre, Italy
Rule #9: Travel with a best friend and no plan.
No itinerary and someone to traverse a magical place with are the ingredients for a perfect day. However, perfect can become even finer if you add a pesto pizza next to an incredible sunset.
Venice, Italy
Rule #10: Buy at least one CD from a street musician.
Even though I didn't need to travel across the globe to buy a CD of Native American music, the memories associated with songs are priceless.
Budapest, Hungary
Rule #11: Withdrawing 30,000 from the ATM doesn't mean that you're rich.
...If the exchange rate is 1 US Dollar to 222 Hungarian Forints.
Dublin, Ireland
Rule #12: Reflect on how lucky you are when nature's beauty takes you by surprise.
As I was surrounded by changing leaves and recording a birthday video for my mom, the video rapidly changed from upbeat to sentimental when it struck me just how fortunate I am to be traveling europe each weekend without the blink of an eye. The only thing I was missing were my loved ones at home who I wished could experience the same beauty with me.
Lisbon, Portugal
Rule #13: Never pay more than 5 euros for a scarf.
Try to beat one scarf for 1 euro and another for 2 euro 50, I dare you.
Sintra, Portugal
Rule #14: Palaces that forbid cameras are both a blessing and a curse.
Free from the reflex to continuously snap pictures of signs that you will never read or wall decorations you will never look at, one member of your group will always see the no photography sign as a challenge.
Barcelona, Spain
Rule #15: Stroll solo.
Sometimes spend a few hours by yourself and just be you. Walk in stores that look interesting, strike up a conversation with shop owner, stay hungry until you find the perfect thing to eat, and above all, do not miss the sun set.
Rule #16: It's a smaller world than you think.
Bumping into an old classmate on a train I wasn't supposed to be on, leaving a park to avoid darkness only to spontaneously turn around and catching a glimpse of friends, or boarding the same train as your best friend's parents are just a few instances that I witnessed in my time in europe. Just when you think that things are either going too well, or perhaps not good enough, you never know who may pop out and surprise you.
Rule #17: If you sleep in an ATM room, people will think you are homeless.
Marred by untimely transportation strikes, we spent 38 hours traveling only to brag that we spent a cold night in a train station and were thrown food and money as we laid on the cold floor.
Rome, Italy
Rule #18: An umbrella that you buy from a street vendor for only two Euros will break in less than an hour of use.Heavy rainfall proved challenging in one of the world's most historic cities. Remember to bring an umbrella, but if not, one of the hundreds of street vendors will be sure to offer you shelter. The only stipulation is that it should be ugly enough that if you lose it, you won't be too upset.
Monte Tamero, Switzerland
Rule #18: A playground is always within reach.
If you start to feel too old, as my friend Matt reminded me on my 21st birthday and again a few months past, you will always be young at heart... all you need is a good playground.
Vienna, Austria
Rule #19: Palaces that forbid cameras are both a blessing and a curse.
Free from the reflex to continuously snap pictures of signs that you will never read or wall decorations you will never look at, one member of your group will always see the no photography sign as a challenge.
London, England
Rule #20: If it's black, looks like a sausage party, and is served with breakfast...
It is pig blood.
Rule #21: Cities sparkle brighter at night.
That's why it's so hard to catch the magic on camera.
Amsterdam, Netherlands
Rule #22: Take this advice to plan your trips based on climate change and use it.
Because I didn't.
Riva San Vitale, Switzerland
110 days, 34 towns and cities, 13 countries, 8 classes,
and innumerable memories older, I wave Europe goodbye. But this is not it for
you, world. My time spent as a wide eyed and wandering speck on the map has crafted
my resolute self-promise to never stop walking, nor shut my eyes, always use my
ears, only sometimes plug my nose, and continually use my experiences and my aspirations
to create my future.
The beautiful town of Riva San Vitale has silently
watched me grow both as an individual and a person in this world. Experiencing
other cultures is both humbling and rewarding. While I anxiously await asking
for directions in English and using a public bathroom without paying a euro,
the countless train rides (and layovers) with best friends I have made in this
magical new world will quickly be missed. But if there is one thing that I have
learned, it is that there is a time and a place for everything, and everything
comes at its due time. While the pizza
might not taste as good as the pesto slice I ate in Cinque Terre or the wind
might not feel quite as serene as it did while standing atop the Cliffs of
Moher, the rowdy dinner conversation with my family or tearful reunion with my
best friends will still send the same chills down my spine while taking the
same breath that was stolen while watching the sun set 3280.2 miles across the
world.
I am so thankful for the experiences I have had over
these past four months. Yet more so, I am thankful for the way these
experiences have caused me to see that this semester’s finish line to be
quickly followed by the starting line of a new journey just waiting to be
traveled. In the words of the very last note I pulled out of my bag of abroad
notes, quotes, and inside jokes written by my best friends:
“How lucky am I to have something that makes saying
goodbye so hard?” – Maya Angelou